O sujeito incestuoso e o pacto denegativo: considerações afetivas sobre o porta-voz de um tempo pós-moderno

Abstract

Child abuse has been more notified each day and, among cases of this specific type of violence, incest is the most common kind. This serious problem is socially faced by the rising of strategies of care offered to the victimized families, but, generally, little attention is dispensed to the incestuous abuser. The imprisonment of these men is not a strategy that covers the complexity of the problem, and it s necessary that the elements involved be explored, among which the interpersonal bonds established by the molesters and the social cultural and historic context in which these bonds take place, or else, the postmodernity. This essay aimed to investigate these elements and, specifically, comprehend the familial dynamics, life trajectory and the meanings that the incestuous scene reveals to the interviewed subjects. Based on the psychoanalytical method, they were conducted documental research and interviews with two men accused of having sexual intercourse with a daughter or step daughter. The transferential-countertransferential matter helped to reveal the manipulative bonding strategy used these men. Throughout the process, I have recognized the hideous representations that inhabited me when I met them being transformed into tender and disturbing images, essentially ambivalent. Their stories reveal precarious and disposable bonding alternatives, which were established in the numerous families they constructed throughout their lives. Immersed in the imperative joy order, in which everything is possible , the limits and interdictions have become weaker along with affective organizations assembled. The incestuous individuals, violent, but adapted to the working world and the chaotic anonymous existence, when are violent, when they submit the other and act like psychic predators, reveal themselves to be spokesmen a postmodern trend: the volatility of the interpersonal bonds, which are in constant disintegration and change.